| How This Book Was Born | 1 |
| Chapter One: Where Did Our Love Go? | 7 |
| Chapter Two: Suddenly Single | 33 |
| Chapter Three: "There's Something I Have to Tell You..." Sharing Your News and Getting the Support You Need from Friends, Family, and Work | 56 |
| Chapter Four: Losing a Bed, a Bank Account, and a Roommate Physical and Financial Separation | 76 |
| Chapter Five: Untying the Knot The Legal Process | 108 |
| Chapter Six: In the Company of a Vivid Ghost Encounters with Your Ex | 136 |
| Chapter Seven: Here Comes the Divorcee Single in Society | 160 |
| Chapter Eight: The Dating Scene-Take Two | 184 |
| Chapter Nine: Retying the Knot-Or Not | 216 |
| Chapter Ten: When Life Hands You Limes, Make Mojitos | 236 |
| Books for Consultation & Consolation | 246 |
| Acknowledgments | 251 |
| Index | 253 |
