The Path to Love
"A relationship should constantly reinforce the beliefs that both partners are enough, that fulfillment lies within by its very nature. 'I am' is the primal feeling of existence, and within 'I am' there is total peace and security. More often then not, however, relationships are unbalanced.One partner feels much more insecurity, much more inner need."
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 Answering as honestly as you can, which of the
following statements apply to you?
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In my relationship, I'm the one who...
(Please check all that apply.)

      1. Feels more unhappy if left alone at night.
      2. Has a harder time making decisions.
      3. Asks for help more often.
      4. Has more fears about not being loved.
      5. Would feel more guilty if I had an affair.
      6. Goes along with plans after they are made.
      7. Hates to argue.
      8. Asks "How are you feeling?" more often.
      9. Keeps the family together.
      10. Wishes that everybody would come to the       dinner table instead of watching TV.
      11. Can't help but show how I feel.
      12. Writes all the Christmas cards.
       13. Tries harder not to hurt other people's feelings.
      14. Would rather cooperate than raise       disagreements.
      15. Would believe a doctor's opinion.
      16. Has a harder time standing up for myself.
      17. Suffers in silence.
       18. Needs a good provider.
      19. Wishes everybody would just be nice at       Thanksgiving.
      20. Won't call a friend on the carpet, no matter       what.
      21. Has a harder time asking for a raise.
      22. Is more willing to do volunteer work.


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