The Portable Personal Trainer

Excerpt

1. Don't Just Dream Big, Dream Huge

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream!

—Mark Twain, writer (1835-1910)

How we've forgotten to dream! As we get older, our goals and our visions tend to grow smaller, more manageable, more "realistic." Our limiting beliefs are more confining than we realize. Nowhere is this truer than in our personal visions of health and exercise. We're constantly making excuses and concessions, and over time, some of us have resigned ourselves to a lower standard of fitness than we ever intended.

It's time to demand more from your body.

When I began training for triathlons seven years ago, I was overweight and had no background in cycling or running. Yet I decided that in one year I would be ranked in the world's top ten. People thought I was mad. I read and reread Dave Scott's Triathlon Training and followed his advice to the letter—so far as riding to work through torrential Caribbean downpours! Six months later I was ranked number six in the world.

You may not aspire to be a world-class athlete, but nevertheless you will benefit tremendously from this strategy. The first step to igniting your passion and opening the door to your boldest fitness goals is to set new goals that excite, inspire, and move you. Goals that reside "within your comfort zone" are unlikely to ignite your deepest passions. Setting new, passion-driven goals is the foundation of any successful fitness program.

Get outside. This exercise cannot be done indoors—to truly open up your mind to new fitness possibilities, oxygen must be coursing in your blood, your endorphins must be pumping, and your consciousness must be liberated. (In fact, I recommend you do most of the "action items" in this book while in motion, during exercise.)

Exercise at a nice, steady aerobic effort, and think about what you want from your body. When you complete your workout, pull out a fresh sheet of paper and write down your three boldest fitness goals. The trick here is to think huge. This is not about "thinking outside the box," it's about disregarding the box altogether. It doesn't mean you have to achieve those goals, but the sheer act of writing down new, lofty goals will begin the process of igniting your passion and will open the door to higher personal performance.

Now that your boldest goals are on paper, scale them back ever so slightly into the realm of realism. Olympic two-hundred-meter champion Michael Johnson's advice on goals is to make them quantitative and time based and realistic. Thinking huge first determines what's most important to you, what's really possible. This raises your own standards. You'll always have your eyes on that prize, and you just never know how close to those goals you may come.

Congratulations. What you just did is how champion athletes begin their quest toward world-record performances. They just dream absolutely huge.

2. Pinpoint Your Ends Motivations

Every battle is won before it is fought.

—Sun Tzu, Fourth-century general, author of The Art of War

To enjoy long-term success in fitness, you need something to hold on to, something to motivate you, something to inspire you over the long term. If you can discover what that is, the battle of reaching your fitness goals "will have been won before it is fought."

Staying motivated is one of the most challenging elements of any fitness program. The first step is to clarify your deep-down motivations to work out. When you do this, you change your fitness destiny because you will be motivated to exercise more consistently and with more passion.

There are "means" motivations and "ends" motivations. Most people know their means motivations, which is why they often struggle to stay motivated to exercise. Top world-class athletes understand their ends motivations, which is why they rarely struggle to stay motivated. What do I mean?

"To lose ten pounds" is a means motivation. That is simply a means to an end. You don't really want to lose ten pounds. You want what losing ten pounds will give you, how it will make you feel. Will "I want to lose ten pounds" get you out the door every day, filled with passion and excitement for your workouts? Probably not. Your motivations must really move you. A better way to rephrase this motivation might be "Look, if I lose ten pounds, I will feel more passionate, I will look younger, and I will become a hell of a lot more attractive to the opposite sex!" Those ends motivations are more likely to inspire you to work out more often and with more passion.

Your long-term success in fitness relies on a true, rich understanding of your ends motivations. A written list of those motivations will keep your passion alive and reignite it when it fades. Sit alone in a quiet place and ask yourself why you want to achieve your bold new fitness goals. Be honest and emotionally charged as you write down those motivations, and post them where you can see them daily. When you're feeling uninspired, refer to the list. If the list does not motivate you, it's time to reassess what motivates you, and this may change often. Keep your list of ends motivations fresh, current, and passion driven, and it will provide you with a powerful wellspring of motivation to exercise.

3. Face Your Weaknesses

You cannot run away from a weakness; you must sometimes fight it out or perish; and if that be so, why not now and where you stand?

—Robert Louis Stevenson, writer (1850-1894)

What has held you back from reaching your fitness goals in the past? I mean the real obstacles? Identifying those stumbling blocks will move you a long way toward resolving them. In fitness, the biggest gains can be made when you turn your mental and physical weaknesses into your strengths. But facing our weaknesses is rarely fun. Now is the time.

One Olympic runner with whom I've trained is relentless in attacking her weaknesses, those things that hold her back from her highest athletic potential. In fact, she rarely works on her strengths. Each week she spends a few moments writing down what holds her back from better fitness, and then she outlines ways to resolve those things immediately. That is why Uta Pippig is one of the most physically, mentally, and psychologically feared athletes in the sport of running.

Write down your biggest physical or mental weaknesses as they relate to your fitness: "knee injury," "no time," "lack of a written program." Then brainstorm a few ideas on how you can address those weaknesses: "Schedule a Friday meeting with Dr. Kelly," "Cut out one hour of television viewing per day," "Create a new written fitness program right now and stick it on the fridge." Act on those ideas this week.

4. Write Your Plan and Post It Up

From a good beginning, all else flows.

—Dan Millman, world-class athlete and author

Now that you know why you desire to exercise, it's time to explore how, when, and where. A personalized fitness plan designed by an expert—and you can become that expert—is a road map: it cannot ensure good weather, but it will get you to your destination.

Most people approach their fitness haphazardly. In fact, I know elite-level triathletes who have only a vague idea what exercise they should do each day. They simply throw together a mishmash of workouts and hope for the best. I am a huge fan of spontaneous workouts (see tip #19), but you will get far better results much faster by writing down your plan. Champion athletes build their confidence and successes from adhering to a master success plan. You can, too.

It's time to create, or rework, your fitness plan. You can build a world-class fitness program in seven simple steps. Pull out a blank sheet of paper and let's get to work!

1. Determine how many hours per week you will dedicate to your new fitness program. Be realistic. It should be no fewer than three. (If you feel that's too much, read tip #85.)

2. Choose two to three rest days. This is vital. No matter what your level or goals, you need at least two days of rest per week. Trust me on this one.

3. Eighty percent of your time should be dedicated to continuous aerobic exercise (cycling, swimming, running, and so on) and 20 percent allocated to strength training. See appendix A for an example of a perfect training week.

4. Two of your aerobic sessions each week are your key workouts: one long workout (sixty minutes or more) and one more intense workout. You must be rested for, and recover from, these sessions to boost your fitness.

5. Keep your key workouts as far apart as possible.

6. Post your new program in a highly visible place: mine sits on my refrigerator. The secret of sticking to a new program is being able to see it every day. But that's not enough: you must also write your workouts into your daily planners, so that nobody can take that time from you.

7. Stick to your program, but stay open to modifying it. Your body and mind are dynamic. Therefore the best fitness program is dynamic—changing constantly but subtly, to match how you are feeling each day.

A note to serious athletes: I strongly suggest you consult someone who deeply understands your sport to map out your program. I don't believe most personal trainers at the local gym will cut it. If you were going to ascend Mount Everest, would you hire someone who studies the mountain for a living or a team of Sherpas who climb that sucker for a living? You need someone who has really "been there, done that." An accomplished athlete in your chosen sport will show you the surest path to your summit while helping you avoid the pitfalls along the way.

5. Redefine "Exercise"

The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in seeing with new eyes.

—Marcel Proust, writer (1871-1922)

The Tendai "marathon monks" of Japan run one full marathon (26.2 miles) every day for one hundred days as their path to spiritual enlightenment. This is an awe-inspiring physical feat even to professional runners. But the Tendai don't just cover a lot of miles; they see running as much more—each step is another opportunity to learn more about themselves, to go deeper inside. It is their way to complete self-awareness.

In America, most of us don't view exercise that way. Fitness, as part of the national dialogue, has been sadly demoted. We talk about burning calories and chatter about looking thin and managing our weight. We step on the treadmill, hit the green button, turn off our minds, and begin counting.

That is one reason why our exercise doesn't inspire us with the passion it should. When we focus on the superficial benefits of exercise (weight loss, quicker running times), there is an immediate disconnect between body and mind. That makes sticking to a long-term fitness program far more difficult. For the Tendai monks, and for all successful endurance athletes, the calories burned aren't the focus; they are a natural consequence of the passion-driven activity.

The passion and performance approach shifts your perspective. Begin to see each workout session for what it can be: a unique opportunity for personal growth, a celebration of life, a walk into the world, part of the total journey. Go out there with a different set of eyes and really open yourself up to the mental and spiritual aspects of exercise. It will be much more valuable to you.

Step off the treadmill and onto the trails. Even if it means driving an extra twenty minutes, the physical, mental, and spiritual benefits you will experience from exercising in nature is well worth the drive. Get your heart pumping and your endorphins flowing out there. Feel your emotions run deep. Run like the Tendai, and after just a short time your passion will grow and your perfor-

mance will soar.

6. Do What You Love

The aim of life is to live, and to live means to be aware, joyously, drunkenly, serenely, divinely aware.

—Henry Miller, author and artist (1891-1980)

Your exercise should relate, in some small way, to Henry Miller's philosophy of life. If it doesn't, you're missing out on the magnificent potential exercise has to fill your life with long-lasting passion. Do what you love, and your success in fitness, and in life, is assured. Period. If you take one tip from this book, take this one.

Motivational speaker Tony Robbins often talks about the fundamental driving principle for all human behavior: the pain-pleasure dynamic. According to this theory, every decision is made either to enhance pleasure or to avoid pain. And of the two, the latter is the more powerful force. That may be one reason we struggle with our fitness programs: we simply associate more pain than pleasure with our exercise. To reach new heights of performance and passion, you must begin to associate more exercise with pleasure.

Passion is the number one reason why the world's best performers achieve success. USA Today reported a study by a Dutch psychologist who tried to figure out what separated chess grand masters from mere chess masters. He found no differences in IQ, memory, or spatial reasoning. The only difference? Grand masters had more passion for chess. This is true for every champion athlete I've met, and it applies to your fitness as well.

Three years ago my dad was eighty pounds overweight. The fact that I've lived fitness twenty-four hours a day for seven years didn't matter to my dad. He still thinks of me as Bart Simpson. One day we were talking about sports we liked as kids. He mentioned racquetball. I knew that was my chance to change my father's attitude toward fitness. Right then and there, I drove to the sporting goods store and bought the necessary equipment, and we played six fierce games of racquetball at the local YMCA. Today Dad is sixty pounds lighter, and he plays racquetball for three hours a day. He cannot get enough. He goes to bed thinking about it, and he storms out the door in the morning to demolish his buddies on the court. Now that's passion for exercise! If you can capture similar feelings about your exercise, you will not fail to reach even your boldest goals.

That is why the absolute bottom line to staying consistent in your fitness program is doing what you love: your exercise should be passion driven rather than guilt induced. Don't jeopardize your love of exercise for short-term gains. You're not going to feel passionate every time you work out, but you should feel motivated most of the time. If more than five workouts go by without a positive feeling about your exercise, something needs to change.


From the Trade Paperback edition.

Excerpted from The Portable Personal Trainer by Eric Harr. Copyright © 2001 by Eric Harr. Excerpted by permission of Crown Archetype, a division of Random House, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.