Love might not be what we think it is. We all seek the happiness that comes from loving and being loved, yet we often find ourselves dissatisfied in our relationships and unable to grasp the cause. Thich Nhat Hanh here shows the way to overcome our recurrent obstacles to love—by learning to be mindful, open, and present with ourselves and others. As he explains, “training is needed in order to love properly; and to be able to give happiness and joy, you must practice deep looking directed toward the person you love. Because if you do not understand this person, you cannot love properly. Understanding is the essence of love.”
This quintessential guide to loving also introduces the four key aspects of love described in the Buddhist tradition—loving-kindness, compassion, joy, and freedom—and describes many simple and direct ways in which we can practice authentic love in our everyday lives.
Sherab Chodzin Kohn
About Sherab Chodzin Kohn
Sherab Chödzin Kohn has been teaching Buddhism and meditation worldwide since 1973. A close student of the Tibetan meditation master Chögyam Trungpa, he has edited several of Trungpa Rinpoche’s books. He lives in Boulder, Colorado.
"Among Buddhist leaders influential in the West, Thich Nhat Hanh ranks second only to the Dalai Lama."—New York Times
"A simplicity and directness that brings true love within reach."—Dragonfly Review
"Recommended reading for anyone who loves."—Ascent Magazine
"Thich Nhat Hanh writes with the voice of the Buddha."—Sogyal Rinpoche, author of The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying
"[Thich Nhat Hanh] shows us the connection between personal, inner peace and peace on earth."—the Dalai Lama
True Love by Thich Nhat Hanh, translated by Sherab Chodzin Kohn