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101 Sexy Ways to Find and Please It

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On Sale: April 18, 2012
Pages: 216 | ISBN: 978-1-58761-295-4
Published by : Celestial Arts Ten Speed Press
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Touch her. Taste her. See and hear her. Breathe her in. 
Discover your ever-evolving sensual potential with Her Sweet Spot, a fearless and sexy bedroom guide for women who love women. Featuring 101 ways to please and delight her, dip in to find ideas for every mood, preference, and proclivity—from outrageous to tender to straight-up carnal. Leaving no erogenous zone unexplored, this daring book inspires and entices lovers to surprise, thrill, and fulfill each other: Want to invite a “third party” to your party? Turn to chapter 34: Threefold. Have an appetite for seduction? Flip to chapters 22: Epicurious and 38: Slurpee Peaches. Curious about knocking boots with her? See chapter 91: Keep Those Shoes On. Or skip the preliminaries and turn to chapter 98: Bottoms Up. Other chapters on toys, positions, and fantasy encounters, to name a few, offer fresh and provocative ways to expand your repertoire of sensual skillsets. Indulge your imagination with 101 sexy ways to make your world a sweeter, more intoxicating place. It’s a promise of pleasure.


Some women climax from breast play alone. Others can take it or leave it.
Fondle, flatter, caress, cup, and kiss her breasts and cleavage—gently at first—lovingly exploring the expanse of this revered territory.
Move your lips and tongue around her areolae before targeting the nipples with a delicate nibble.
Women with smaller breasts often claim amplified sensations, likely due to the more concentrated nerve endings prominent on the underside of their breasts and around the nipple and areola. Thus, the bigger her breasts, the more you can anticipate a need to assertively handle her girls for her ultimate pleasure.
Sensitivity in a woman’s breasts intensifies if her nipples are pierced, during a menstrual cycle, as she becomes sexually aroused, and after she orgasms.
Don’t limit breast play to foreplay. Revisit throughout the sexual escapade. Her erect, insistent nipples defy you to resist an encore round of tonguing her titties.
Love those tatas.


No one can truly know what goes on in another woman’s mind.
The power of the pussy is daunting. Fearing she’ll disappoint, she could choose to risk less—and avoid talking openly about how to bring the pussy the most and best pleasure. It takes a real woman to ask for directions.
The appetites and experiences of lovers will never be identical and are always changing. Individual desires can become shared desires only when lovers freely communicate.
An excellent way to encourage her to voice her most intimate wishes is to tell her what you want—and when and how.
Language is powerful. Tell her to do that certain thing she does so well—that sexy move with her hands, body, or mouth that never fails to send you over the top. Tell her how she makes you feel.
Remember that time . . . and what you did to me . . .
Tell her when it’s good. Plead for more.
The more certain she is that she’s pleasing you, the more she’ll want to. And the more she’ll grant you every splendid opportunity to discover all the wonderful ways you can satisfy her.

Fight, Flight, or Fuck
In the words of the fierce and politically progressive humanitarian Eleanor Roosevelt, do one thing every day that scares you.
Passion arouses her biologically and psychologically, so she immediately feels a need to fight, flight, or fuck.
Shock, love, confrontation, and fear all create passion. This enduring emotion is one of the most compelling and intense that a woman can feel. Passion explains, for example, her attraction to a dangerous person, as well as her inclination to mistakenly associate her ensuing arousal with sexual desire, infatuation, or even love. Danger, like pleasure, exhilarates.
With a lover, fight, flight, or fuck is just that. Her body is primed for any of these. She’ll ultimately choose, consciously or not, whether to fight, flight, or fuck as the momentum of her feel-good, confidence-boosting endorphins and heart-racing, lust-inducing adrenaline surge through her.
Danger opens her up to forbidden emotions. A flash of daring transports her to that instant when she’s living purely in the moment— an ultimate state of aliveness. Thus she’ll always seek a thrill, all the while fundamentally desiring a life of security.
Ride a roller coaster for a taste of danger followed by a release and return to safety. The fleeting fear converts into sexy passion as your mutual screams morph into glee. Accelerate her experience by fingering her naughty bits during the wild ride, mixing the energy of the mechanics with the turbulent forces of passion.
A relationship that’s as exhilarating as it is reassuring is forever.

Table of Contents

introduction    8
 1 Stop and Smell the Flower
 2 Pitching the Woo
 3 Wit
 4 Glow
 5 The Eyes Have It
 6 Kiss Kiss Bang Bang
 7 Temptress
 8 Ripple Effect
 9 Spank
 10 Delay
 11 Deprive
 12 Sexual Body Language
 13 Tell
 14 If Lady Godiva Could Do It . . .
 15 Show
 16 Sublimate
 17 Sugarcoat
 18 Awaken a Latent Desire
 19 Music to Her Ears
 20 Demonstrate on Her Lips What You Want to Do to Her Pussy
 21 From the Top
 22 Epicurious
 23 Hips
 24 Lips
 25 Tits
 26 Nips
 27 The Lure of Her Neck
 28 Knock Her Off Her Feet
 29 Talk the Talk
 30 The Feeling Is Mutual
 31 Treasure the Pleasure
 32 Heaven Scent
 33 Effleurage
 34 Threefold
 35 Sweat
 36 Whet
 37 Tilt Her Paradigm
 38 Slurpee Peaches
 39 Between the Cheeks
 40 Knocking on Her Clit’s   Back Door
 41 Where the Bee Sucks,   There Suck I
 42 Touche Pas
 43 Fight, Flight, or Fuck
 44 Kinking Her Softly
 45 Authentic
 46 Press Play
 47 Accoutrements
 48 Toolbox
 49 Splosh
 50 Steam
 51 Preen
 52 Billie’s Stopless
 53 Swept Away
 54 Get Her Kink On, Hard
 55 Get Her Kink On, Harder
 56 Salut d’Amour
 57 Renew
 58 Popcorn and Porn
 59 Artifice
 60 On the Edge of Her Seat
 61 Just Fuckin’
 62 Gushing
 63 Suck Off
 64 Pie-Sexual
 65 Who’s on Top?
 66 Gamble and “Proct” Her
 67 Submission
 68 Salad Days
 69 Shake Your Booty
 70 Quickie on Cue
 71 Her Dogs Are Barking
 72 Giving Good Ear
 73 Retreat
 74 Packin’ More Than Lunch
 75 Have Cake; Will Eat It, Too
 76 Abstain
 77 Bent into Shape
 78 Fur-Lined Teacup
 79 Written on the Body
 80 Nice Girls Finish First—  and Last
 81 Anonymous
 82 Mind over Matter
 83 French Vanilla
 84 Mouth to Mouth
 85 All About You
 86 Team Player
 87 Mischief
 88 All Wrapped Up
 89 Day at the Museum
 90 Lose Your Senses
 91 Keep Those Shoes On
 92 Inunction
 93 Petite Madeleine
 94 Crack of Dawn
 95 Heart on Sleeve
 96 Hold
 97 Bliss at Your Fingertips
 98 Bottoms Up
 99 Is It Warm in Here?
 100 Bite Your Tongue
 101 Verve
  Lexicon    212
  Safety Notes    214
  Acknowledgments    215
Jude Schell

About Jude Schell

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JUDE SCHELL is a writer and producer of film and theater and is also the author of Lesbian Sex and The Guide to Lesbian Sex. She began writing about female sexuality in 2005, intertwining sex, humor, and gorgeous, sophisticated photography.

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